Hello everyone,
I’m Becca; I will be taking over for Heidi as this year’s student blogger, since Heidi is no longer fresh meat. Congrats on that Heidi!
It is a gray and rainy day in my hometown of Norman, Oklahoma, and I am still drying from my very wet bike ride. It had just finished raining when I left, so I figured I should have at least half an hour before the next downpour. I was wrong. See, I never check the weather. I just don’t care if I get wet, or a bit cold…though on days like today, when the Weather Gods seem to be trying to make up for three months of drought in one morning, this philosophy can get me into trouble.
I plan to spend my rainy afternoon cloistered inside, trying to figure out just how much I can cram into my teeny-tiny dorm room. I am one of those people who like lists, and true to form I am working on a list of what to bring (this list actually translates into piles on my floor, so I can no longer get into my room). Thus far, I have:
• Essentials:
o Yoga mat
o Rock climbing gear
o Clothing
o Coats
o Shoes
o Hiking Boots
o Bedding
o MacBook, Ipod, Wii
o Shower shoes
o Toiletries
o Fist Aid kit
o Paper, pens, stapler, etc.
o Important documents and financial records
o My camera
o Commuter Bike
o Boxed food
o My chocolate stash
• Other stuff that would be nice to have
o Photography books, a few favorite novels, all the books I am half-way through and think I might actually finish
o Photos of friend, family, and my puppy dog.
o A poster of Mount Everest (it is one of my life’s goals to climb the summit)
o Camping gear
o Mountain Bike
o A plant
I am still very lost about what to bring. They have this nice list on the CU site about what not to bring (curtains, most appliances, pets, parents, etc.) but their list of what to bring was depressingly short. Meanwhile, I have been facebooking my roommate and she is trying to determine if she can bring her backpacking gear, her skis, and her snowboard, while I am trying to find a place to store my second bike.
In an attempt to answer both our questions, I went out and bought this book I have heard about, The Naked Roommate, hoping that it could give me some guidance. So far, I am 113 pages in, and it has given me good advice about how to deal with the klepto roommate, the smelly roommate, the roommate you hate, the roommate that comes with her boyfriend attached, the drunken roommate, and of course, the naked roommate. Though I have talked to my roommate, and she seems really cool, this book totally has me convinced that everyone in college is doomed to live with a neurotic, thieving, smelly, puking crazy person. To top it all off, I still have no idea what to fill our new prison cell with!
I guess I am just going to have to keep floundering around until I figure it out. Maybe this is a good example of what college will be like—you have no idea about what you are doing, but you just keep stumbling around, acting like everything is under control, until everything works itself out. The Naked Roommate did tell me to ask for advice when I am lost, so does anyone have any advice?
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
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7 comments:
It doesn't matter what they sound like at the beginning of the year... your roommate will be crazy in some sort of way. My roommate was innocently racist - he was from a farm in Indiana where racial slurs were abundantly normal in his high school. There was probably a word or phrase about once a week we had to discuss in detail as to why it was racist and derogatory. You should have seen his face when he realized how ugly some of it was...
And of course, I did things that drove him bonkers as well. By the end of our freshman year, we were the best of friends but our relationship was much better when we weren't sharing the same 12 x 15 room.
You better have your climbing gear and yoga mat ready for when i come visit. I am going to miss you.. You are a great writer btw...
Haha. Oh, great Anthony.....that makes me feel soooo much better. Thanks.
Aaron, thanks for real. I am looking forward to your visit.
Becca....don't know if you are able to utilize loft beds...if so they are a great space creator. Here is a link for a company that I have purchased a bed from http://www.collegebedlofts.com/. College is such a great way with all its interrelationships and new situations to expand into less judgment and more openness....for the mind to shrink and what is true within to come forward. I had multiple roommates while living in dorms...each of them taught me something so valuable...sometimes though that realization didn't come until much later. :) I treasure all those experiences, even those in the moment I perceived to be yuk!!!
Love,Deb
Thanks for the link and the advice Deb. I know that CU offers loft beds, but they turned down my request. I will look into it...
I really like this new blogger!! :)
Hey Becca! I will be following along, like it or not ;)
Jennie,
Sounds great to me!
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